The Importance of Secure Attachments in Childhood

Attachment may be described as a bond or anknowing it will be there on his or her return. Children
affectionate tie between a child and it's primarywho have a secure base (i.e. they have trust and a
caregiver, characterized by a loving and enduringsense of security in the availability of their parents)
relationship. All theories of infant social and emotionaltend to have a secure attachment, and are less likely
development emphasis the child's relationship toto display clingy, anxious behavior when in a social
parents and other caregivers. One reason for thissetting.
emphasis is the assumption that an attachmentIt is also known that securely attached individuals
between child and caregiver is important for providingdisplay greater co-operation with their parents. Such
a foundation of emotional security for the child, andbehaviour may have beneficial effects upon social
forms a basis for the parent's later influences on thedevelopment since these infants are better likely to
child.listen and interact with their parents, leading to
A prominent figure in the study of attachmentenhanced learning and gaining of experience from
behaviors is Mary Ainsworth. Using a techniquethem. On the other hand, an insecurely attached child
known as the strange situation, Ainsworth was ablewho is uncooperative may miss out on parental
to identify 3 different patterns of attachment thatefforts to teach or help them, and ultimately may
emerge in children at around 8 months of age. Sheeven discourage the parents from trying to assist
felt all children could be classified into one of thesethe child.
three attachment patters;a)securePerhaps the best way to understand the importance
attachmentb)insecure-resistant attachmentc)of attachment formation would be to observe the
insecure-avoidant attachment.effects where it has been hampered or obstructed.
It is becoming increasingly known that securelyThere are a number of studies showing the
attached infants tend to be more socially competentdetrimental effects of attachment figure deprivation
than insecurely attached infants. Studies show thaton social development - rhesus monkeys have been
children classified as securely attached are rated byisolated at birth and deprived of all social and
teachers as having enhanced popularity and socialenvironmental stimulation. When placed in free play
skills. They also seem to be less prone to bullyingsessions with others, these monkeys display severe
from other children. Why might this be so ?developmental deficits and withdrawal.
Enhanced social competence may be explained bySimilar research with human infants has focused on
findings that secure attachment is associated withthe developmental outcomes of institutionalization
higher self-esteem, autonomy and empathy towards(for example, in Romanian orphanages). Such children
others. Studies show that securely attached infantshave been observed to be more withdrawn, rarely
have a healthy sense of self, in that they tend toapproach adults or seek reassurance if in distress.
acknowledge mostly positive traits about themselves,These children also tend to be more attention
whilst also being aware of their imperfections. On theseeking and consequently more disruptive in school
other hand, insecurely attached infants tend towardsthan children reared in home environments. Even
an excessively negative or positive view of'good' institutional rearing at an early age is associated
themselves (depending on the type of insecurewith behavioral problems in childhood and personality
attachment). It is probable that the qualities linkedproblems in adulthood. The lack of a dependable
with secure attachment make children more likeable,attachment figure seems to unsettle these children, in
popular and attractive, leading to better friendshipthe formative phase of their personality
networks..development.
Significantly, socially competent and self-confidentThere is a growing amount of research to suggest
individuals are likely to make better relationships withthat insecurely attached individuals can benefit from
others, whilst also mingling with peers of similar socialearly therapy and social care. The introduction of
standing. This means that secure attachment in earlyaffectionate and responsive caregivers has been
infancy seems to lead to a greater quality andshown to have positive developmental effects upon
quantity of social experience, leading to achildren previously devoid of a secure attachment.
continuously progressive social development throughParenting courses which have an emotional and
childhood and adolescent years. This is an ongoingrelationship focus, can also help. Changes in the
cycle of events, appearing to have it's origins in earlyemotional and physical environment, and consistent
attachment formation.messages of acceptance, can help a child move
The question should be raised - how does this socialtowards a more secure sense of self and others.
competence and heightened self esteem develop ?Improvements in family circumstances and in parent
Under Piagetian thought, a child gains knowledge bychild relationships (e.g. reduction in family stress,
acting upon the environment - the more experienceincrease in social support) can to some degree alter
that a child can gain, the more learning that occurs.the quality of attachments that have been formed.
Research findings indicate that secure attachment isChildren who have suffered neglect, or other forms
associated with greater exploratory behavior inof childhood abuse, are at risk of being insecurely
infancy. For example, when kindergarten agedattached. Sometimes, parental mental health problems
children are placed in cognitively challenging situations,(including drug and substance misuse during and after
those who are classified as being securely attachedpregnancy) are important precipitating factors. At
display more sophisticated make believe play andother times, it may simply be a result of family
greater persistence and enthusiasm on problemstress, domestic violence and a lack of adequate
solving tasks at 2 years of age. In contrast,social support for the parents. Clearly, it is in all our
insecurely attached infants do not show suchinterests to support children and families to flourish in
behaviors. Secure attachments are more likely to leadsecure, safe and healthy environments. There are a
to curiosity about the environment, and a heightenednumber of support services in both the voluntary and
willingness to explore. John Bowlby would describestatutory sectors, working hard to make this
this phenomenon as the product of a 'secure base',aspiration a reality. Please contact me, or visit my
which a child can leave and move away from,website, for further details.