Impulsivity - Where the ADHD Rubber Meets the ADHD Road

When I read about children with ADHD having anI did not medicate my hyperactive son until I realized
increased risk of using drugs, flunking out of school,that this child had absolutely no physical control over
or landing in jail, I think about my two boys. Whenhis impulses. He was incapable of counting to 10
they were very small I had a friend that said thebefore he did something that he would later regret.
older son would be a lawyer and that the youngerMedication treats this symptom. His impulsivity has
son would need a lawyer. The boys were two andvanished. If we can give someone medication and
four years old at the time but even then it was clearthe impulsivity is gone, is this not proof that there is
that my ADHD inattentive older son would stay outsome pathology in the brain that the medication is
of trouble and the baby would be another mattercorrecting??
altogether. He was impulsive and fearless even as aI recently was reading an article regarding how to
two year old.punish an ADHD child because he destroyed
I believe that impulsivity is the where the 'rubbersomething precious while off his medication. The boy
meets the road' for most people dealing with ADHD.was confused and distraught over what he had done.
Most of our households can adapt to hyperactive andThe post asked how the child should pay for this
inattentive kids. We can run the hyperactive kidsdestruction. I was quite torn while reading this article
around the block and nag the inattentive kids untilbecause I truly believe that my hyperactive/impulsive
they focus. These symptoms can be extremelyson, un-medicated, will do things that he has no
disruptive to a person's potential but they do notcontrol over.
disrupt the foundation of a household the wayHere is something to ponder. Let's say that a child
impulsivity does.with Epilepsy suffers a grand mal seizure where he
People with inattentive ADHD are, by and large, nothits a shelf, knocks down a precious vase and breaks
impulsive. When you have an impulsive child withit. Should this child be held responsible for replacing
ADHD and a child with inattentive ADHD, youthe vase?If we truly believe that impulsivity is a
completely understand why the hyperactive/impulsivesymptom of the complex brain pathology of ADHD,
sub-type gets all the research study dollars. Thesethen we must not punish the ADHD child for a
are the kids that, as a society, we really worrydisease symptom that un-medicated, is beyond his
about.control.