Families Coping With Mental Retardation

Although there may be differences becauseThey are likely to only be able to handle one
situations vary, there are common characteristics ininstruction at a time.
children with mental retardation issues.Sometimes they will use words that they have heard
They have difficulty remaining focused. They havebefore without knowing what they mean, because
difficulty with attention and they look around thethey are mimicking others. This is natural. Ask them
room. Keep reminding them to look at you. Thiswhat the word means. Help give them verbal
focuses them back on you and what you are saying.language.
Remind them gently that looking at the person thatThey may use pronouns (I, you, me) inappropriately,
is speaking is paying attention to the person that isand it will be up to you to help them to figure out
talkingwho they are talking about.
They will have difficulty staying on task with thingsThey may answer questions that you feel are
they do not enjoy (e.g. homework, chores, etc).beyond their ability level. But don't resist answering
Gently redirection back to the task, while makingthem. They will notice, and this will frustrate them
sure that they are looking directly at you when youtoo. Do your best to bring it to their level and not
make this redirection will be important.make your answer too complex.
They will tend not to hear as much when not lookingThe rigid though processes of mentally retarded
directly at you because they are not attending tochildren make it difficult to learn from mistakes. This
what you are saying. Their attention is dividedcan result in counter-productive behaviors. They have
between what you are saying and whatever theyproblems with generalizing and need help with taking
are looking at.one situation and using the information from that
Children coping with mental retardation issues havesituation for the other situations. For example, when
difficulty with both expressing themselves andlearning about social skills, I would work with one skill
understanding what is being said to them.until they learn that skill. Then I add a skill until they
Furthermore, they get frustrated and confused whenlearn the new skill. Then I add situations until they can
they can't express what they want to say. Tell themadd situation themselves without cuing. The more
that it's okay, slow down, take a deep breath, anddifficult the task, and the more effort involved, the
start over. Be patient. They may have difficultymore difficulty they are going to have, the more the
understanding:directions or proceduresrapidtask is going to be divided into smaller pieces.
speechcomplex sentences or instructionsabstractRepetition is the key here. When you teach a social
concepts - very concrete and focused on the hereskill or an anger management skill, repeat the
and nowdifferent scenarios over and over, take a break, then
It is important to recognize that the things you saydo it all over again. The next week, repeat the
may need to be repeated several times and inprocess. Think about when you had to learn your
several different ways. Give one instruction at a time.multiplication tables. You repeated them over an over.
When they complete that instruction or understandThe information needs to be repeated over and
that one concept, then give the next instruction.over.