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Sometimes People Can't Handle Success

Sometimes people can't handle success -clinics. After retirement, Maradona
Satish Nairspent most of his time in Cuba (can say
"I tried 1000 different ways to find ain hospital), and after returning to
solution, but 1001st was the bestArgentina suddently he suffered a major
solution" - Thomas Alva Edison, whenheart attack following a cocaine
asked about his experience in inventingoverdose and was admitted to intensive
the light bulb.care in a Buenos Aires hospital. After
The first question is "What is Success?"he showed improvement, Maradona was
: The dictionaries provide varioustaken off the respirator on April 23 and
definitions of success as 'an occurrenceremained in intensive care for several
that accomplishes its intended purpose'days before being discharged.
or 'a state of prosperity or fame' or 'aSecond example : Diana, Princes of
realization that a person isWales, from the time of her engagement
successful', but success is broader thanto the Prince of Wales in 1981 until her
what we define. Achieving success meansdeath after a car accident in 1997,
you became famous; you can have enoughDiana was one of the most famous women
money to buy the luxuries you longed forin the world, a pre-eminent celebrity of
so many years, you are being a darlingher generation. During her lifetime, she
of the masses.was often described as the world's most
Anybody can achieve success, however forphotographed woman. To her admirers, the
that one has to have the self beliefPrincess of Wales was a role model;
within him that he can, this is theAfter her death, there were even calls
primary step towards success. If you dofor her to be nominated for sainthood,
not believe in yourself, then creatingwhile her detractors, consider her to
that feeling is your first assignment.have been suffering from a mental
Secondly, we have to focus on what weillness; it has been suggested that
are going to do to achieve success,Diana was, according to one biographer,
something we already have and somethingpossibly suffering from Borderline
we have to attain from others.personality disorder. Diana herself
There are many factors that contributeadmitted to struggling with depression,
to success or failure, the mostand the eating disorder bulimia, which
important of which is a person'srecurred throughout her adult life.
mindset. One can not create and sustainThird Example is of Mike Tyson. At the
success, if his thoughts, beliefs andheight of his fame and career in the
emotions are not adjusted to success. Iflate 1980s and throughout the '90s,
one believes in oneself, money or whatTyson was one of the most recognized
success means for them are insports personalities in the world. Apart
dissimilarity to a successful life, hefrom his many sporting accomplishments,
finds it difficult or impossible tohis outrageous and controversial
create one.behavior in the ring and in his private
Some of the key factors for people, wholife as well as the drug and alcoholic
want to be successful are determination,abuses has kept him in the public eye
decisiveness, continuous learning,than his career.
constructive planning, hard-work,Tyson retired from competitive boxing in
relentless practice (regain the mettle2005. He has since engaged in a series
even when things are going against hisof exhibition bouts in a tour across the
wishes), have to have the ability toUS to pay his numerous debts. Despite
recover and learn from failures. Onereceiving over US$30 million for several
requires a strong vision of his future,of his fights and $300 million over his
his planning; setting achievable goalscareer, Tyson declared bankrupt in 2003.
all can play important roles in becomingnow, Tyson appears in countless popular
successful.media in either cameo appearances or as
There is no need to worry, If one doesa subject of parody or satire.
not have all the above characteristics,So why these people addicted to drugs,
think success is not a heavenly fruit,alcohol and suffering from various
as if one can only dream of it,disorders? And the answer is "Sometimes
everybody can achieve it with variouspeople can't handle success" the reasons
techniques. One can set goals andmay be they fear the success and self
objectives, which may be inheritedsabotage their lives, that's what
qualities, however learning somehappened to Maradona, Mike Tyson and
advanced techniques for success, whichPrinces Diana, there were throwing the
can only be learned from schools/people.fame away. No one has been able to break
You have to develop mental strength tothrough this massive self sabotage. No
succeed, which will enable you towonder that people are afraid of
recover from setbacks more easily.success. To achieve success means need
There is another side of this coin thatof a lot of self-examination along with
lot many people, famous personalities,chances in lifestyle and facelift of our
they can not handle the success suitablybehaviors.
- can say success is an catastrophe forWe are NOT just talking about some
them - a bad experience. How to handlepersonalities here; we are talking about
the success depends upon the person asevery successful people, including you.
an individual i.e. it is a verySuccess is like a hard rock, not
individual matter. To somebody successeverybody is able to crack or pull it
is an unexciting aspect, but to somebodydown easily. Chances are that anybody
it is an energizing factor to achievewho tasted the success in any field can
more. We surprise when we hear newsface such problems at any moment of
about famous people, who suffer fromtime; it is not a fault of us, but a
alcoholism, drug abuse and seriousphenomenon people around the world face.
emotional problems, we see that successSatisfaction is an important ingredient
can bring different kinds of discomfortof success. For becoming successful, you
alongwith it. Diego Maradona, Mikehave to learn to get satisfied. This
Tyson, Princess Diana are perfectoften means giving up wanting and
examples, facing serious problems whenlonging, two feelings that don't go with
they are famous, as if people think theysatisfaction.
have everything, but suffered atLet us hope we will not be addicted to
different levels and they fee they arethe drugs and alcohol like Maradona did,
alone in the midst of fame.but almost everyone is limiting his
First Example Diego Maradona. He islives because part of him is afraid of
former caption of Argentine footballsuccess. If it applies to us, then we
team. He played in four World Cups, wonshould retrospect that what receding
a world cup in 1986, received FIFAfactors and soul searching to know what
Player of the Century and voted in 2000pulled us back, so that we can rectify
by FIFA, the best football player of allthe wrongs and find the rights.
time surpassing the great footballerSuccess requires discipline,
ever PELE.determination and a strong belief in
Since the 1990s, Maradona has beenoneself. It's a whole lot easier to stay
battling cocaine addiction, whichwhere you are than to move into a new
included spells in Swiss and Cubanstate of being.



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