Resilience and Becoming Resilient

Have you ever thought why some people can dealthat can be learned and developed in anyone " (APA
with stress, tragedy and bad times better thanHelp Centre).
others - it's all to do with 'Resilience'. It is believedThings to build your resilience
that 'resilince' is the key for both children and adultsDeveloping skills to become more resilient is a
when times especially when dealing with depression.personal individual journey. Strategies to help you
What is Resiliencebecome more resilient include:
Resilience is the ability for people to cope with stress-> Positive Self - Talk. This is when the voice in your
and when things don't go well. Therefore when therehead thinks good things about you.
are bad times, people who have learnt resilient skills,-> Set realistic goals, taking small steps to meet
have an increased chance of 'bouncing back'. This canthose goals
reduce depression and other health issues.-> Say positive things such as compliments.
How do I become Resilient?-> Hang around positive people. Negative people can
In order for a person to be resilient they need tobring you down
feel good about themselves. Being resilient is an-> Accept that no one is perfect. You make
ongoing process which is "ordinary, not extraordinary".mistakes, other people make mistakes.
Anyone of any age can gain resilient skills. This-> Get involved in positive things, like exercise, music
doesn't mean that they won't experience hardship,and other activities
stress and sadness, it just means that you can gain-> Take care of yourself - your health and wellbeing.
the skills to enhance your coping and recoveryDoes any of you have other strategies to coming
method. "It involves behaviors, thoughts, and actionsmore resilient?